So when I first started this diary I figured it would be a fun way to document being married to Vivian and that is what the majority of the content will be. However, slowly I realized that this diary  can be an outlet to comment on events happening in our community.  I will admit I am not the […]


Please read this article. I can remember myself being teased about being gay growing up and that was before I even knew myself. Luckily I had amazing parents who taught me to be strong and not to care what other kids (people) thought or said about me. Not all kids are that lucky. It is […]


So folks there is some confusion/frustration in the Von Brokenhymen household. We are not sure how to proceed with Vivian, meaning should Vivian continue to perform or should Vivian hang up her heels. My vote is for Vivian to continue to perform. Vivian is not so sure. You see in case you forgot drag can […]


You would think an Assistant State Attorney General of Michigan would have better things to do with his time. Click on this article and read about his campaign against an openly gay student body president. Me thinks he protests too much.


So I made the mistake of saying to Vivian last night that her dancing boys for her one number needed prop guitars of some sort. That was not very smart of me because now I will get to spend the next 3 days looking all over town for guitars that will work. I went to 2 Halloween stores […]

Rehearsal with the HOS!

Riddle me this my devoted readers: Where can you go and find grown men dancing in heels dressed as men? Where else but a drag show rehearsal…..LOL. Last night was rehearsal for Ho Sho 666. If you think a drag show is interesting you should be at one of its rehearsals. You have unshaven, unpainted, […]


Even though it is almost a year later I have to say I am still shocked/surprised that I am married to a drag queen. The  reason for this is 17 years ago when I came out of the closet, drag queens scared me. It was more of when you don’t understand some thing it scares […]

First Appearance/Performance Part III

So I have told you about the first appearance and some of the events leading up to the first performance. Well let me tell you about the night of the first actual performance Miss Brokenhymen ever had. As stated in previous posts it was Miss Havana on Jan 29 2010. I suggested to Vivian that she […]

Ho Sho 666

Ho Sho 666 is at the end of the week and Vivian FINALLY began the choreography for her first number. Now when I say begin I mean exactly that. It’s not learned,  she just figured out what her and her dancing boys will be doing. I do not even know what they will be doing because […]